Show it only to people
who match — at the same time.

How to use it

1. Register your conditions (free)

   In the My Page tab → “Basic profile” → “Secret Filter”, choose your situation and what you accept or look for in a partner, then save. Nobody sees what you registered until you match and both agree.

2. Pick conditions and see the count (free)

   the Discovery tab → [Filter] in “Browse” → “Secret Filter” at the bottom → “Search by special wishes” → [Choose conditions]. Agree to the terms of use and choose the items to search by (only items you have registered yourself). Tap [See how many match (free)] to see the count. When few people match it shows a range such as “fewer than 10”, so you can’t tell who they are.

3. See the results

   Tap [See results] to get anonymous cards with no names or photos. The first time for each set of conditions doesn’t use up any count.

4. Open a card and reach out anonymously

   When you open a card, the other person only gets an anonymous note that someone viewed them via Secret Filter. From an opened card you can send a Step Signal (message anonymously) without showing your name.

5. Reveal at the same time

   In the conversation, request [🟢 Mutual reveal]; when the other person accepts, only the matching items become visible to both of you at the same time. If either of you closes it, they’re hidden again.

Counts by rank

Good to know

• Registering conditions and checking the number of matches are free on every rank. You can add refreshes and card opens in the app when you run out (prices are shown in the app).
• Matching happens only on our servers. Even the operators’ screens show nothing beyond whether there was a match.
• Conditions that too few people have registered can’t be searched until enough people join (the screen tells you so).
• People you have a block or soft block with don’t appear in the results.
• You can change or remove your conditions at any time (the My Page tab → “Basic profile” → “Secret Filter”).

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